Never Give Up: The Emotions Involved with Elder Care in Boca Raton FL!

When it comes to providing elder care to our loved ones, most of us have the initial reaction that we want to do it ourselves.  Whether we are motivated by a genuine desire to help, compassion, guilt, or feeling obligated. We sometimes take on this role without knowing just how challenging it can be.Elder Care Boca Raton FL

The level of care required when providing elder care alone, and the toll it takes on their life and health, both physically and mentally, often shocks caregivers.  You may start to feel like you don’t have the skills, or patience for the job.  You may become overwhelmed, and start to realize that your life is passing you by.

Yes, caregiving can be demanding but it can be rewarding as well.  There are going to be times when you feel frustrated, tired, angry, and lonely, but don’t give up!  Providing elderly care is a tough job, but it can be done with the right balance.

If you have made the decision to be a caregiver to an elderly loved one, it doesn’t have to take over your life.  You can be there for your loved one, and still enjoy the things you always did.  It is when you give up being active in your own life that you will start to feel, and think in a negative manner.

It is important that you take time to go out with friends, or spend quality time with your own family.  The stress of providing care around the clock will wear you down after a while.  Caregiving works best if you have a good support system.  Talk or meet with others who know what you are going through.

Take time to go to the movies, or out with friends even if it is only once a week, or twice a month.  You need that time to remove yourself from a caregiving situation, and mingle with others.

Don’t feel guilty if you need to ask a close friend, or relative to sit with your loved one on occasion, while you go out.  It helps to keep you in a healthy state of mind, and therefore provide quality care.

Don’t be afraid to ask for help even if it means you have to hire someone for one to two nights while you attend to your own personal life.  Your loved one probably feels like a burden, and watching you become depressed, or impatient with them will only hurt them in the long run.

Activa Home Health Care is available to assist with elderly care in the home at any time. Serving Delray Beach, Boca Raton, Boynton Beach, Wellington, Jupiter, West Palm Beach, Fort Lauderdale, Lauderhill, Coral Springs, Pompano Beach and surrounding communities.  

About Jon Fedele

Jon Fedele is co-founder and Chief Executive Officer of Activa Home Health. During the past 15 years he has owned and operated several successful healthcare companies in South Florida.

“I am passionate about our community and the people we serve”, states Mr. Fedele. “We have an obligation to take care of our seniors and allow them the dignity to age safely and independently in their own homes”.

Jon is married and has three children. He enjoys waterskiing and spending time with his family and friends.
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